When lively and sunny Louisa Clark (played by Emilia Clarke) enters Will Traynor’s (Sam Claflin) world, she has no idea that this job will completely change her life. Once an adventurous financial elite, Will became paralyzed from the neck down after a car accident, confined to a wheelchair for the rest of his days. The once confident man now sinks into despair and anger, rejecting everyone with harsh words and cold demeanor.
Lou’s arrival is like a ray of light piercing through Will’s dark life. She wears bright clothes, speaks straightforwardly and humorously, and despite having no experience in caregiving, she gradually breaks down Will’s defenses with her sincerity and optimism. Initially, Will scoffs at her clumsiness and overenthusiasm, but gradually he is drawn to her unworldly yet vibrant qualities. Over time, their relationship evolves from opposition to understanding, from understanding to dependence, eventually developing into a deep and complex emotional bond.
However, behind this relationship lies an unavoidable heavy reality—Will remains deeply tormented and makes a heart-wrenching decision. The film does not shy away from this ethical dilemma but explores it with delicate strokes, delving into the meaning of life, dignity, and the boundaries of love. Lou tries various ways to help Will regain hope in life, taking him to horse races, concerts, and even on a trip abroad. But Will’s final choice elevates their relationship beyond a typical love story, transforming it into a profound exploration of respect, freedom, and sacrifice.
Director Thea Sharrock uses warm cinematography and restrained storytelling, allowing the audience to oscillate between romance and sorrow. The film’s soundtrack, such as Ed Sheeran’s “Photograph,” perfectly enhances the emotional atmosphere, while the beautiful settings of British countryside and European coastlines add poetic elements to the entire movie. Clarke and Claflin’s performances are highly compelling, especially Clarke, who not only portrays Lou’s vivacious charm but also her struggle and growth when faced with the dilemma of love and morality.
Before I Met You is more than just a tearjerker; it is a contemplation on the value of life. It prompts us to think: Is loving someone about doing everything to keep them here, or respecting their right to choose? How should we face life’s blows when fate strikes hard? The film doesn’t provide simple answers but uses genuine emotions and profound themes to leave the audience moved and reflective long after the credits roll.